Things change, people change and places change all the time.
One thing always remain though and that is your being, your personality. I found out the other day that I'm a pain to live with when I'm on holiday. Now I don't know what the explanation for this might be but I have a few ideas.
One being that my mind is hopelessly seeking to find something to amuse me. Two, I'm just tired physically and spiritually. Three I just suck at being pleasant around people. I guess it's almost the same as when you're alone you feel bored but when you're with people you feel like you don't belong and lonely.
Personally I've experienced all this and if you've experienced it a as well I don't think I need to tell you how much of a terrible feeling it is. Sometimes you just feel like people don't even care or they've lost interest in you and you feel unimportant. Of course this is sometimes true but not all the time. And that's what most people, including me, can't see...the not all the time part.
Because we are so used to being rejected, per say, we don't see the good parts of life that are worth enjoying. We wait eagerly for that good thing to come back and bite us again because that is what we are used to. It's a dangerous way to live, I know. This is how family interest is lost and this is definitely how friendship is lost.
What I'm trying to say is: sometimes we have to just stop for a minute and not think about ourselves. You might even find that people around you are more uncomfortable with you then you are with them, that could be a good thing. I know others might disagree but look at it this way, You can make it your mission to make people comfortable around you. You can be yourself and not be judged for showing off your awesomeness, let's face it you probably are the most awesome of them all.
I say it's time we got out of our little nicely built shells and face the world. If you can't relate to people then find someone else who you can relate to, you'll enjoy yourself far more with that person and maybe with time you'll be able to deal with those people You think are far more cooler than you to relate to.
This is not a life advice. I'm not saying live for people, there's far more to life than just people around you. it's just an observation of myself and these are just my thoughts. Take it or leave it.
One thing always remain though and that is your being, your personality. I found out the other day that I'm a pain to live with when I'm on holiday. Now I don't know what the explanation for this might be but I have a few ideas.
One being that my mind is hopelessly seeking to find something to amuse me. Two, I'm just tired physically and spiritually. Three I just suck at being pleasant around people. I guess it's almost the same as when you're alone you feel bored but when you're with people you feel like you don't belong and lonely.
Personally I've experienced all this and if you've experienced it a as well I don't think I need to tell you how much of a terrible feeling it is. Sometimes you just feel like people don't even care or they've lost interest in you and you feel unimportant. Of course this is sometimes true but not all the time. And that's what most people, including me, can't see...the not all the time part.
Because we are so used to being rejected, per say, we don't see the good parts of life that are worth enjoying. We wait eagerly for that good thing to come back and bite us again because that is what we are used to. It's a dangerous way to live, I know. This is how family interest is lost and this is definitely how friendship is lost.
What I'm trying to say is: sometimes we have to just stop for a minute and not think about ourselves. You might even find that people around you are more uncomfortable with you then you are with them, that could be a good thing. I know others might disagree but look at it this way, You can make it your mission to make people comfortable around you. You can be yourself and not be judged for showing off your awesomeness, let's face it you probably are the most awesome of them all.
I say it's time we got out of our little nicely built shells and face the world. If you can't relate to people then find someone else who you can relate to, you'll enjoy yourself far more with that person and maybe with time you'll be able to deal with those people You think are far more cooler than you to relate to.
This is not a life advice. I'm not saying live for people, there's far more to life than just people around you. it's just an observation of myself and these are just my thoughts. Take it or leave it.
01:20 |
Category: |
0
comments
Posts
